i can't help but smile at people around me and they smile back. They can't seem to help it and it does seem like a little smile can go a long, long way. it's unavoidable to have things that don't go my way, but when in in a happy mood. it's easy to think of it, as something that will pass and i will get through. As saying goes "no matter how thin you slice the ham, there are always two sides."